Forum for May 4, 2024: A daughter’s grace

Published: 05-03-2024 11:00 PM

The meaning of grace

I’m writing to thank you for publishing a recent article related to the murders of Susanne and Half Zantop (“Victims’ daughter responds with grace”; April 19). This article by John Lippman moved me deeply by its recognition of grace in the attitude of Veronika Zantop toward one of her parents’ murderers, James Parker. Lippman incorporated quotes from Ms. Zantop that focused on the true meaning of grace: “It’s not about revenge.” “And maybe some of the thoughts I had at the time have changed, in terms of compassion for his family and even him at age 16 doing something terrible.” “I wish James’s family the best and that they are able to heal.” “…(W)hat I’ve tried to continue to practice — is that kindness is key, that people are complex….”

In an era when so many people speak and behave with vengeance and hatred, one can feel hope and optimism when someone shows the grace that Ms. Zantop has shown. To feel the sadness and grief she feels at the loss of her parents and simultaneously feel sadness for the 16-year-old person that killed them is a tremendous expression of grace. I thank her for being a model of human kindness and compassion, and I thank Mr. Lippman for writing beautifully about her perspective on such a traumatic situation.

Linda Secord

West Lebanon

News and a ‘made-up world’

A few weeks back MSNBC, with the oversight and approval of its parent, NBC, hired Ronna McDaniel as a new political commentator. Her previous history as an avid, or should I say rabid, supporter of Trump was well known. Just as well known was her strenuous advocacy of the “big lie.” She has never disavowed that; only softening it, in political speak, after she was fired as head of the GOP National Committee and, thus, seeking new employment.

This set off a firestorm of claims that MSNBC could not sustain the diversity of opinion that McDaniel represents. Indeed, the entire stable of MSNBC commentators rose up and refused to accept her as part of the MSNBC family. The revolution in the ranks seemed to come as a complete surprise to the president of NBC who sheepishly and swiftly backed down and fired McDaniel. He then issued a half-hearted excuse saying he was only trying to add some diversity to the lineup.

Here I side with the “rank and file” of the MSNBC commentators. The president of the network, in his hiring of McDaniel, exhibited a total ignorance of the mission of a reputable news organization. The reason all these commentators refused to accept her is that she came from a world of made-up facts and innuendo, of disinformation that does not represent journalism but, in fact, its antithesis. Differences of opinion, i.e. diversity, are welcome when they evolve from the same set of facts as are apparent in this “reality.” But the imaginary universe from which McDaniel comes offers no credibility.

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